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Lyle Fairfield - 13 Dec 2005 00:28 GMT Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet?
Can we find positive things about Steve and emphasize them? I can think of two 1. He can explain things very clearly; 2. He is knowledgeable about the UI and the various commands of toolbars and menus etc of Access. In these two areas he is better than I am. Can you think of others?
Can we stop denigrating him? Can we forget the past slights we attribute to him? Can we encourage him when he contributes?
Suppose that he makes his living from work that he picks up through his newsgroup advertising. Can he stop this advertising and starve? Can we suggest solutions for this basic problem? If he stops advertising and stops getting work through that advertising then what?
Can we demonstrate how we would like Steve to behave with our own behaviour?
Do we want him to feel happy and valued?
Can we try?
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Br@dley - 13 Dec 2005 01:03 GMT > Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet? > [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > > Can we try? Thanks for trying to be positive. Let's all move on eh?
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Stephen Lebans - 13 Dec 2005 02:06 GMT Very well stated Lyle.
:-) --- Stephen Lebans http://www.lebans.com Access Code, Tips and Tricks Please respond only to the newsgroups so everyone can benefit.
> Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet? > [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > > Can we try? Larry Linson - 13 Dec 2005 03:50 GMT > Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet? I'm sure we _could_. As David has repeatedly advised us, we could just ignore his advertising and his violation of the basics of USENET behavior and of the charter of the newsgroup. That might encourage him... you might see a quarter screen of answers, or none, and several screens of unverifiable advertising claims.
Have you tried polite complaints to his news server and ISP? (That's prescribed for someone who habitually violates the rules, but it's not always effective.)
> Can we find positive things about Steve and emphasize them? > I can think of two [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > In these two areas he is better than I am. > Can you think of others? I don't know, Lyle. It is really difficult to tell whether he is knowledgeable in particular areas or just quoting without attribution.
> Can we stop denigrating him? Can we forget the past slights we attribute > to him? Can we encourage him when he contributes? When he was contributing with a SIG that only modestly exceeded USENET norms, I did encourage him, and so did some others, I believe. Then, contributing apparently got to be too much work for him, and we saw more responses that were just "contact me for cheap work". When that drew fire, he went to a more-than-SIG that's more advertising SIG than help, by far now.
> Suppose that he makes his living from work that he picks up through his > newsgroup advertising. Can he stop this advertising and starve? Can we > suggest solutions for this basic problem? If he stops advertising and > stops getting work through that advertising then what? I would surmise that he was making a living before he jumped into the newsgroup telling us how he was going to refuse to pay someone he hired who gave him an estimate and exceeded it by a matter of a couple of hours? That got him "started off on the wrong foot" with a lot of people here. And, he's repeatedly demonstrated that he really doesn't much give a big rip for playing by the rules, even when the rules are crystal clear. Accepted RFCs and charters and the like are for others to abide by and for Steve to ignore, it seems.
> Can we demonstrate how we would like Steve to behave with our own > behaviour? I've demonstrated to Steve how not to advertise, ever since he's been in the newsgroup. At one time I had two websites listed in my SIG, and nothing for sale on either one.
> Do we want him to feel happy and valued? Do you remember what Rhett said to Scarlett?
> Can we try? If you mean, should we just let him get away with violating USENET rules and the charter, charging people for solutions that he got by posting under psuedonyms without any consequences, and throwing public tantrums when he's pointed out for those transgressions, then I guess my question would be "Why should we favor him so?"
What you said may have been "well said" as Stephen put it, but I don't think it stands the test of Steve's history here.
Larry
Larry
Danny J. Lesandrini - 13 Dec 2005 17:58 GMT Hmmm. I believe that was me. I've refrained from contributing to this thread because I didn't want my bias to show through, but, apparently, I had missed the historic post, where Steve complained about "someone he hired." In retrospect, I think he was speaking about me!
I answered one of Steve's posts and _gave_ him some ASP code for a project he was working on. When he asked me to modify it, I offered to do so at my lowest rate, $50 per hour, on a fixed bid. This turned out to be a bad idea, as Steve was of the opinion that I could make an ASP web app behave like a Windows form. As he expanded the scope of his requirements, the hours increased, and so did my bill.
I finally washed my hands of him and told him to keep the app and throw away the bill (a whapping $700). I took the loss in favor of the alternative, which was to spend endless hours tweaking HTML until labels lined up and edit counter-intuitive warning messages for ill-designed user processes which approximated _his_ idea of acceptable user feedback.
My experience with Steve reinforces my belief that he is an amateur. I would not recommend anyone seek out his services. While I greatly respect Lyle and his initiative to heal the wound, the below mentioned, here-to-fore unnoticed jab at my generosity has roasted up my potatoes (despite my Italian surname, I'm an Irishman from way back).
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> I would surmise that he was making a living before he jumped into the newsgroup telling us how he was going to refuse > to pay someone he hired who gave him an estimate and exceeded it by a matter of a couple of hours? That got him > "started off on the wrong foot" with a lot of people here. Arno R - 15 Dec 2005 10:31 GMT > Hmmm. I believe that was me. Danny, Sorry to hear that you were burned also. Did not know your story but my guess is that Larry meant the story of the Neil Ginsberg 'rip off'.
Steve's version (thread 'To All'): http://groups.google.com/group/comp.databases.ms-access/msg/fd88f8ae9eb501f2 Neils version (same thread): http://groups.google.com/group/comp.databases.ms-access/msg/46038ba2954261f9
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Arno R - 13 Dec 2005 11:36 GMT > Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet?
>Can we find positive things about Steve and emphasize them? I am not going to tell anything nice here about PC because at the moment I just can't think of anything... -- He demonstrated a total lack of decency more than often. -- He does not give a sh** about what other people say in these groups. -- He falsely accused me and others more than often. (and I am talking of very lame accusations here...) (I will stop now but the list is very long ...)
So I would think of it as *very hypocritical* to say nice things about Steve now. So, this time I am not with you Lyle. Sorry for that.
It is very simple and a lot of us have told him before: ==> Steve could just start behaving like everyone else here. ==> It's simple. It's not complicated. It's not difficult.
So I will stop this game immediately as soon as Steve stops job hunting and changes his sig back to the four-line-sig he used before. If Steve makes *any statement here* that he will stop abusing the groups I will even remove the website. I don't even demand excuses or whatever from this guy. Isn't that nice??
==>My only goal here is to stop him advertising/job hunting. ==>My only goal here is to show that we can (yes David we can ...) stop Steve. And ...we are doing very good at the moment!
Btw: Not me, nor my so-called goons are responsible for the latest humiliating and denigrating thread. As Duane said: Steve is his own worst enemy.
The best thing Steve can do in my opinion is to take a break. He could stay away for a few days or so to calm down. He could come back 'normally' and all this misery can be forgotten soon.
Arno R
Lyle Fairfield - 13 Dec 2005 18:22 GMT Arno
I think Steve CAN'T withdraw. His world, his mind, his soul; these things will not permit him to withdraw.
I think you are intelligent,civilized, brave and honest. And I think you CAN withdraw.
PC Datasheet - 13 Dec 2005 17:22 GMT For all who read this -------------
Larry Linson is nothing but a hypocrite!!
A couple of years ago when he was down and out, he asked me if I would subcontract to him some of the work I was doing for people from the newsgroups who came to me asking for help. It was okay then when he was out of work. Now he is condemning that I am still providing help in the same way.
XMVP - you were 100% right about Linson!!
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> Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet? > [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > > Can we try? John Marshall, MVP - 13 Dec 2005 17:37 GMT Larry tries to calm the waters for you and this is how you thank him? You're a class act steve.
John... Visio MVP
> For all who read this ------------- > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] >> 1. He can explain things very clearly; >> 2. He is knowledgeable about the UI and the various commands of toolbars Thelma Lubkin - 13 Dec 2005 18:00 GMT : Larry tries to calm the waters for you and this is how you thank him? You're : a class act steve. He complains about Larry Linson who doesn't seem ready to retreat. The 'calm the waters' quote that follows is from Lyle Fairfield. --thelma just an observer
: John... Visio MVP
:> For all who read this ------------- :> :> Larry Linson is nothing but a hypocrite!! <snip>
:>> Can we find another way of dealing with PCDatasheet? :>> :>> Can we find positive things about Steve and emphasize them? <snip>
Gary B - 13 Dec 2005 23:40 GMT Can I just bung in my twopenny worth, as a (very)semi-pro and a relative newcomer to this (and other) Access newsgroups?
I came across PC Datasheet on more than a few occasions whilst looking for answers to my (many) questions. It soon became apparent that, beyond his desire for business (which I'm guessing we all have), he has very little to contribute to the group. For that reason I quickly consigned him to the same category as the spam in my inbox, the junk mail through my letterbox and the b****y traffic on the M25, ie, it's incredibly irritating, intensely frustrating, but there doesn't seem an awful lot I can do about it, so I delete/bin/ignore it.
Whenever I see a reply from PC Datasheet I simply don't read it. Not because I think he is evil or anything so daft, but simply because my experience has been that it isn't worth my time.
I appreciate that he is breaking the rules and in some cases cluttering up our screens, which must be intensely frustrating if you've just spent your time trying to help someone,but if he didn't get business from it then surely he wouldn't do it. Assuming that it's feasible, maybe there is something to be said for educating the users of the newsgroups on the negative aspects of encouraging him by using his services? There are certainly many so-called experts who recommend the same strategy for dealing with spam, junk mail and traffic.
For my own part, if I was desperate enough to want to pay for help, I would go to the people who have proven their worth by giving their time and expertise freely and unconditionally.
Merry Christmas to you all and thanks for your time.
Larry Linson - 15 Dec 2005 08:56 GMT I can recollect PC Datasheet asking me for subcontract work. I do not recall ever asking him for any work, as it never occurred to me that he had enough for himself (and I still hold that opinion). It, thus, appears that his memory is faulty. A faulty memory would not be much of a recommendation for contracting with him to do work.
But, for certain, one thing I have never done is to advertise for work in the newsgroups -- that would be in violation of USENET rules, as set forth in a number of adopted RFCs and in violation of the charter of this newsgroup. And, until PC Datasheet increased his SIG beyond a reasonable four lines or so, and before he started dropping in his "contact me for a solution to your problem" posts into so many message threads, I didn't criticize him.
The advertising he is doing is, also, if I understand correctly, against his news server's (Earthlink) Acceptable Use Policy. And that would open him up to the hassle of losing his account, if they back up their AUP with action when people complain politely and include his offending post, with full headers.
Larry Linson
Keith W - 15 Dec 2005 10:09 GMT > The advertising he is doing is, also, if I understand correctly, against > his news server's (Earthlink) Acceptable Use Policy. And that would open > him up to the hassle of losing his account, if they back up their AUP with > action when people complain politely and include his offending post, with > full headers. Is one such complaint to Earthlink from an individual enough or s it a question of bombarding them into action?
Lyle Fairfield - 15 Dec 2005 11:45 GMT > I can recollect PC Datasheet asking me for subcontract work. I do not recall > ever asking him for any work, as it never occurred to me that he had enough > for himself (and I still hold that opinion). Larry, I never thought the story of your asking Steve for work had any substance at all.
PC Datasheet - 15 Dec 2005 12:44 GMT And here's what Linson said about you, Lyle --
There are opportunistic trolls around, though, who'll jump into a fray if they spot one, and some might have participated here and there. It's clear to me from the writing style and content that many of the Hotmail / Google posts are Mellon and, I think, most of the Anonymous.
But, I would certainly not rule out that Lyle as an active participant. Some of our colleagues, remembering back in the pre-Access 2000 days when he was an active and usually helpful participant, are quick to rationalize for him. I think I've said that I consider him "worse than a troll, a formerly-productive turncoat who allied himself with the trolls". It is clear that he formed a deep-seated hatred for Michael Kaplan, David Fenton, and me during the Access 2000 debates. But his hatred for me can't be any stronger than my disgust with him.
>> I can recollect PC Datasheet asking me for subcontract work. I do not >> recall [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Larry, I never thought the story of your asking Steve for work had any > substance at all. Lyle Fairfield - 15 Dec 2005 13:14 GMT Things change, Steve. They could change for you (with many of us at least) if you would give us the slightest opportunity, the barest opening, the least glimmer of hope.
Keith W - 15 Dec 2005 13:40 GMT > Things change, Steve. Are there any other skeletons you'd like to dig up to attempt to create an ally Steve?
PC Datasheet - 15 Dec 2005 12:37 GMT Linson, you are a hypocrite and a liar. XMVP was 110% right about you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>I can recollect PC Datasheet asking me for subcontract work. I do not >recall ever asking him for any work, as it never occurred to me that he had [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Larry Linson Tim Marshall - 15 Dec 2005 14:14 GMT > Linson, you are a hypocrite and a liar. XMVP was 110% right about > you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Steve, you should stop now. Surely you can see the folly of putting yourself into the same camp as that poster? One could easily use your post here to substantiate a claim that you were of the same cut as xmvp. I'm not about to make such a claim, but holy smoke, you're baring your breast here...
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David W. Fenton - 15 Dec 2005 20:21 GMT > The advertising he is doing is, also, if I understand correctly, > against his news server's (Earthlink) Acceptable Use Policy. And > that would open him up to the hassle of losing his account, if > they back up their AUP with action when people complain politely > and include his offending post, with full headers. Are you sure the post you're responding to was not forged by Don Mellon?
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PC Datasheet - 15 Dec 2005 23:52 GMT No it wasn't, David!
Linson did come to me a couple of years ago and ask if I would sobcontract work I was doing for people from the newsgroup to him. Right hand on the bible!!!
Now the S.O.B. hypocrite is lying that he never did and double lieing saying I went to him. He's nothing but a blowhard that likes to stand high on his soapbox expecting everyone to listen enthralled by what he is saying. Look at many of his posts. When you stick a pin in them and let out all the hot air, there's nothing left but a puddle of crap. He has let becoming an MVP go to his head!!!!!
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>> The advertising he is doing is, also, if I understand correctly, >> against his news server's (Earthlink) Acceptable Use Policy. And [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Are you sure the post you're responding to was not forged by Don > Mellon? CDMAPoster@FortuneJames.com - 16 Dec 2005 04:36 GMT > No it wasn't, David! > > Linson did come to me a couple of years ago and ask if I would sobcontract > work I was doing for people from the newsgroup to him. Right hand on the > bible!!! First, we need to get an idea of how bad of a sin your advertising is. I hope to present enough of a perspective to frame that question properly. Hopefully, you will indicate the severity of your actions after reading this. You are smart enough to know that you are violating the charter. Have you been provoked enough to justify that violation? We should be smart enough to figure that out.
Since you mention respect for the Bible, I will attempt an exegesis based on examples from the Good book. Apologies to those with other good books, including Atheists.
Assuming that your behavior does not correspond to a mortal sin (i.e., a sin that puts one beyond the possibility of Divine forgiveness) I will use examples of sins that aren't so mortal. Namely, smoking, drinking and gambling, plus one that is more analogous to the current situation.
Sins seem to fall into the increasingly severe categories of being against oneself, being against others and being against the Deity (i.e., the newsgroup itself). I'm not suggesting NG idolatry here; I'm just an establishing an analogy.
It may surprise some that there are no specific prohibitions to smoking, moderate drinking, or gambling anywhere in the entire Bible. Sins that affect only the sinner are dealt with in the Bible, suprisingly, by a single instance or two of Divine ridicule and then nothing more is said. The principle seems to be that acting against your own interests isn't too bright.
Smoking, which is a "sin" that, excepting second-hand smoke for now, only hurts the sinner. So to determine "What Would Jesus Do" (WWJD) I try to think of anything that seems to be related to smoking. Hmmm.. I can only think of one off the top of my head. A vague reference in the Old Testament to those who "feed on ashes." The single mild poking fun at seems to be all there is about it. You can say that the body is a temple and that the temple is receiving fire damage but the damage itself seems to be the extent of the punishment. BTW, I have never smoked.
IMO, drinking is a "sin" that only happens when taken to excess. Even Jesus drank. Anyone who thinks He created grape juice at the wedding at Cana doesn't know Ja.. err Jesus well, or worse just ignore the contextual clues. He was even accused of being a drunk. Outside of a couple of Old Testament examples of very bad behavior after drinking too much (incest in one example) and a few short warnings about it in both Testaments, the Bible is nearly silent. People are still responsible for their actions but, by itself, the penalty for drinking seems to serve itself. BTW, please don't drink and drive!
Gambling is more interesting. The Old Testament references to gambling seem to encourage it, or at least to have enough confidence in God's protection based on a holy lifestyle to go out and risk fighting the enemy to get your piece of the pie. Even the Gospel doesn't slam the Roman soldiers for gambling. The warning seems to be that those who get caught up in gambling may become too preoccupied with it and miss something important. BTW, if you gamble, don't lose :-).
So I think that those of us who ridicule you are misinterpreting and understating the severity of your actions. Excessive ridicule is almost never what the situation calls for. I.e., it's not the next step after mild ridicule. In spite of the amount of fun some have had with it (including myself I'm sorry to say), I recommend that we treat you with the respect that is due an adult and vice-versa, yet still allow for some humor. Since your actions are quite difficult to quantify as far as damage to other posters and readers of this NG, I'll skip right to my point. I think your actions are similar to the money changers in the temple. They were able to rent vendor space for free in violation of the law while others had to pay rent elsewhere in the normal fashion. In spite of this unfair advantage to other vendors, the main problem is that it mocks the Deity. So, WWJD? In that case He didn't attact the vendors themselves. He struck at the venue. Hard. So in that light, I can understand why some posters have struck at your ability to advertise here directly. I understand that attacking the venue is problematic. I sincerely apologize if I have misunderstood you and hope to be corrected if that is the case. I don't know for sure, but I'm inclined to think that you are simply testing the NG to see how we handle this situation. I am still hoping that all this will be resolved. I just don't have enough wisdom to make everyone happy. In the meanwhile, I'm going to try to enjoy the show as much as possible and secretly hope, due to the prurience that still lingers within me, that both the advertising and the bashing continue. And I repeat that the main problem IMO is that you disrespect this great NG. To me, it's unfathomable unless its the only way you have to vent your problems with others here.
> Now the S.O.B. hypocrite is lying that he never did and double lieing saying > I went to him. He's nothing but a blowhard that likes to stand high on his > soapbox expecting everyone to listen enthralled by what he is saying. Look > at many of his posts. When you stick a pin in them and let out all the hot > air, there's nothing left but a puddle of crap. He has let becoming an MVP > go to his head!!!!! I have to admit that paragraph was humorous to read but it's not a step in the right direction. Maybe it's a case of everything seeming pure to the pure? It doesn't matter to me whether he tried to get sobcontract work or not. Given what you say, he needed work badly but still didn't resort to violating the NG charter, right? You say you're doing better than most of us here. Why would you still need to advertise here? With that many satisfied customers the referral work should be more than enough to keep you and a moderately sized staff very busy. We want you to post here and succeed, but in the right way. If I think of any ways to help the situation I'll post back. Back to Access.
James A. Fortune
If we even touch the fruit we'll die. -- Eve
Larry Linson - 17 Dec 2005 03:59 GMT "PC Datasheet" <nospam@nospam.spam> wrote <SNIP>
Poor, poor pitiful little troll. Steve, you're edging up on "about as close to universally disliked as can be."
I have sent e-mail directly to Steve only once or twice since he expanded his SIG and began, so often, to post just to contact him for his (paid) help. When I did, it was to urge him to reduce his SIG (as I see he did in this post... but it has been much longer), and to stop the blatant and frequent advertising.
If he has a link to a post that validates his claim, let him post it here. It is too easy to forge an e-mail to accept a "quoted e-mail", so that won't wash. We have seen him "quote" posts to bolster his point, when he could have posted a link if they were genuine, and we have seen him "quote" endorsement e-mails, which, of course, can't be verified.
Just for the record, I have never been "down and out" to the extent that I would advertise in the newsgroup, nor have I ever been so "down and out" that I'd beg Steve for work -- after seeing how he planned to treat his subcontractor when he first posted in this newsgroup, that would be just begging to be ripped off.
I don't know what it is that might have gone to Steve's head to convince him that the charter and adopted RFCs do not apply to him.
Larry Linson
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