Yes, the DT Picker is a confusing interface.
The simplest solution is to use a little unbound Access form as a calendar.
There's heaps of free ones around, such as this one:
http://allenbrowne.com/ser-51.html
That article also links to Stephen Leban's wrapper class if you want
something more involved.

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> I am using Access 2002 I have limited space in my form so The Date & Time
> picker is a great feature, but I do have nulls in my date field. My users
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> check mark on the The Date & Time picker. I don't want to see the check
> box at all. Is there a better solution. Thank you in advance.